This morning, 8/8/19, the news rudely reminded me that the man with killer rhetoric is still in office, and I saw a quote telling me that narcissistic women are dangerous.
Yes, they are. Women can be extremely dangerous. I am not talking about a partner in my situation; I am talking about my mother. Part of my problem is that she has gotten away with emotionally and physically brutalizing me throughout my life because of being seen as a sweetie.
Now, she is an older woman, and I am being seen as cruel for not having any personal contact with her because most people see her as a needy older woman.
My 87-Year-Old Mother Almost Got Away With Murder
2/20/18 was the day she shocked me into realizing how dangerous she actually is with what she did to me during her premeditated attempt to murder me. She used my cloth purse, which had a phone charger(the brick part) in it to hit me in the face, head, & body because she knew I already had severe nerve damage that was going into remission. Her goal was to severely hurt me just in case her lifetime wish of wanting to elevate my existence from her life didn’t work. Over a year later, I have not had one pain-free day, and she may have caused the facial neuralgia to become chronic. Also, my mother was so disappointed that she did not succeed with her intention to kill me that she bragged about her desires when she thought no one of significance could hear her. Every time I see her, she says that I am crazy because an older woman could never have the strength to do what I say she did.
I have also learned since then that my mother committed financial crimes, has hurt people before and that she probably caused all of my horrible physical problems by shaking and beating me in the face and head as an infant and child with the help of my brother and enabling psychologist father. The law enforcement here will not give me a restraining order against her because I am to respect my mother, no matter what. I also feel that I should be able to charge her with the attempt of murder because I would like to show the world that we will punish narcissists, no matter who they are.
Women Can Be More Dangerous Than Men
Stay away from narcissistic women; they are possibly more dangerous than men because most people think women are not capable of hurting stronger people than they are. When they are in psychotic fits, they can do anything.
Personally, my position was that if I had hurt her, I would be in jail today for elder abuse. As it is, I am being forced to continue to provide her life support systems because of her threats to turn me in for elder abuse.
Why You Need an Advocate
I wish that is was easy to charge someone for abuse, but it is not. The problem starts with the initial call to the police. Or, when you decide that you have had enough abuse. Either law enforcement abuses you by not helping you when you attempt to charge your assailant. Or, if you should try to walk away from a parent, your family and closest friends shame you for ignoring your so-called loved one’s needs.
Leaving domestic violence victims, whether women or men, to fend for themselves is causing 9 out of 10 of the victims to live in constant torture, or they end up dead. This is sick and inhumane to treat human beings in this manner. I want to see people help victims become survivors, not buried them in their fear or the ground. These are just a few of the reasons that you need an Advocate.
As your Advocate, I fight the law, or whatever until the victim gains peace in winning their goal.
By the way, we also talk along the way about everything you’re going through because it is my goal to see you free enough to be happy.
Whether you are being abused by a violent partner, corporation, institution, a doctor, or law enforcement, etc. I have 35+ years of working experience, a Ph.D. in Public Safety, and am a survivor of emotional, physical, and sexual abuse as a child. Furthermore, I suffered from domestic violence as an adult and late-life discovery of the continuation of parental narcissistic abuse.
For more information regarding how you can stop the abuse you are going through, please feel free to contact me at any time.
Sandra Speer, Ph.D., CLC, CDRC, Legal Advocate
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Sandra Speer, Ph.D. is a world-renowned Author, Keynote Speaker, and Certified Life Coach and Disaster Recovery Coach who offers Seminars, Group and Personal Coaching designed to show all how to move beyond their past to live happy and successful lives. Dr. Speer knows from personal experience as a survivor of a lifetime of abuse, that recovery brings happiness and chances for unlimited success. As a Legal Advocate, Dr. Speer strives to ensure that abusers are punished. Nothing makes her happier than watching prosecuting attorneys go to jail, children return to their right parent, and individuals find justice with her assistance. If you need to charge, fight the system, or in need of making a complaint against a doctor, mental health practitioner, corporation, or institution; Dr. Speer has the experience needed to win your case. Her publications include The Remains of Hurricane Katrina with various articles written as a contributing journalist for educational books and publications, FEMA, and the American Red Cross to help all understand Trauma.
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Dr. Sandra Speer, Ph.D., CLC, CDRC, Legal Advocate